Most nights we have live performances (mostly comedy but some music) from 8pm and DJs from 10pm. Check our upcoming schedule for details.

  • This is 21+ venue.

  • We ask our patrons to be kind and patient with our staff and your fellow partygoers.

  • We have a zero tolerance policy for homophobia, transphobia, racism, xenophobia, and hate speech of any kind. Consent is a must. Always ask before you touch anyone. We reserve the right to ask you to leave if you do not respect our rules.

  • FnL is still keeping it fresh and fun. You can expect a dancey music experience, we tend to stay out of top 40. Feel free to go to the city for that. NO REQUESTS.

  • We love birthdays and celebrations, but we don’t do bottle service or have reserved seating.

  • If you’re trying to come with a large group (especially on the weekends) get here early - as close to 10:30 pm as possible. Due to the nature of our space, we do not host semi-private events, but if you’d like to have a private event please send a form here.

  • If you’d like to perform at Friends and Lovers, please send a submission to MUSIC@FNLBK.COM with a description of who you are, what you do and why you think your a fit for our space. Send links to your performances, DJ mixes, music, and past events. Due to the extremely high volume of submissions, we do not respond to everyone.

  • think you left something at the bar? We get it, too much fun! But if it’s Blue Chase card, get a new one. Otherwise, we re-open on Wednesday, you can come then. Feel free to also shoot us a dm on instagram and we’ll look at the bar for you.

With Love,

The FnL Team

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